The Magic Formula for Survival

Dancing, friends, and love in a broken world.

I’m Alexander Cheves, and this is LOVE, BEASTLY—a candid, sex-positive advice blog for men of all tastes, orientations, and leanings. Most of my readers are MSM, but everyone’s welcome.

I answer real questions about kink, intimacy, desire, and the messy stuff that happens in our bodies and beds. You’ll also find the occasional essay or review when the ur…