Ask Beastly: He Says If I Don’t Cum, I Don’t Love Him

Orgasm is complicated—and pressure is its worst enemy.

I've met a guy on Grindr, and we have a long-distance relationship, which is a strain. I am 58 & he is 35. We meet up when we can, which is about four times over the last eight months. Whenever we meet, the sex is fantastic, but he gets very frustrated that I don't cum. He says that I don't love him unless I cum. We see other guys when we are apart, and…