Ask Beastly: I’m Hung and New to Gay Sex—How Do I Top Right?

It’s not about pounding—it’s about rhythm, feedback, and patience.

Hey, I just wanted to thank you so much for the Advocate article "17 Tips for Being a Better Top". I'm 47, have just rejoined the gay scene after an 18-year marriage to a woman (I'm Bi), and I'm dating an incredible young guy. We talked about how I wanted to be inside him and he's bottomed before. The problem is that I'm on the larger side down there, 7…