Ask Beastly: Why Can I Masturbate But Not Stay Hard During Sex?

What performance anxiety looks like and how men can overcome it.

This is a little bit embarrassing, but I’ll go ahead. I am a gay 23-year-old student at university, and I have a problem; when I am masturbating by myself, I get hard and enjoy it, I bust a nut without a problem. I can even do it multiple times a day, but whenever I am having sex with other guys, my dick keeps losing its hard-on. Sometimes it’s even a p…