Ask Beastly: I Want to Be a Slut. Is That Bad?

You’re not broken. You’re just waking up.

Dear Alex,

I'm a kinky gay man. I am already out as gay, but I've been feeling more and more strongly the urge to confront my fetishes and explore this part of my sexuality. I want to try things. To have sex with lots of people (possibly at the same time), to be used, to be a slut (perhaps a good slut), to be bound, to be a leatherman, to be a drone, to …