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Ask Beastly: I Hooked Up With a Guy. Why Do I Feel So Guilty?

Ask Beastly: I Hooked Up With a Guy. Why Do I Feel So Guilty?

A reader confronts post-sex shame and wonders if it means he’s gay.

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Alexander Cheves
Aug 02, 2025
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Hi Alexander, I recently read your article "How do I know if I am a bottom?" and you say that "You'd enjoy helping others to discover.” So, here I am :)

25 y/o cis male; my preferred pronouns are he/him. I know you’re neither a sex therapist nor a psychiatrist. And I don’t know if you’re into answering messages, but I’m just trying my luck. Because I do…

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