Ask Beastly: I Haven’t Bottomed Since a Painful Tear

Before you bottom again, see a doctor—then ease in with patience.

When I was younger, 24 years old (I’m now 31), I had a bottoming experience with an inexperienced top who was way too eager, and well, I tore. To the point where I was in pain for months and months, and it was excruciating, and despite my best efforts, I had a lot of resets. Even now, if I poop too much, I’ll feel mild pain for a while.

I’m now married t…