Ask Beastly: How Do I Meet Kinky Gay Men Without Using Grindr?

Apps suck. Real-life spaces still give the best sex—and the best friends.

Hey, I was wondering if you might have tips for how to find kinky friends to play with? I don’t love having to find random kinky people on Grindr, and I have a hard time creating repeat hookups. Are there other places to look? I know Twitter can be one, but I am not super comfortable posting photos on here.

Howdy,

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