Archive - LOVE, BEASTLY

July 2025

Ask Beastly: I Fantasize About My Husband Leaving Me for Another Man

You're not broken—you’ve just found a powerful turn-on.

Jul 31 •

Alexander Cheves

Ask Beastly: How Do I Meet Kinky Gay Men Without Using Grindr?

Apps suck. Real-life spaces still give the best sex—and the best friends.

Jul 30 •

Alexander Cheves

Ask Beastly: I’m Attracted to Trans Men. Am I Fetishizing Them?

Attraction isn’t unethical—but how you treat someone always matters.

Jul 30 •

Alexander Cheves

Ask Beastly: Can Shockwave Therapy Help with Erectile Dysfunction?

Here’s what I know about GainsWave, PRP, and the price of staying hard.

Jul 30 •

Alexander Cheves

Ask Beastly: Why Can I Masturbate But Not Stay Hard During Sex?

What performance anxiety looks like and how men can overcome it.

Jul 30 •

Alexander Cheves

Ask Beastly: How Do I Be a Cum Dump at Folsom Europe?

Grindr works—but so does walking into the right backroom.

Jul 30 •

Alexander Cheves

Ask Beastly: I Want to Be the Dead Body in My Fantasy

Extreme kinks like this can’t be acted out—but they can be understood.

Jul 30 •

Alexander Cheves

Ask Beastly: What If I Want Intimacy, Not Porn Sex?

I promise: there are men out there who want that, too.

Jul 30 •

Alexander Cheves

Ask Beastly: Can I Douche With a Water Bottle?

I get it—you’re not out yet. Here’s what works and what doesn’t.

Jul 30 •

Alexander Cheves

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