About

Hi, I’m Alexander Cheves—some call me Beastly. I’m a writer, former sex worker, and advice columnist based in Berlin. This blog is where I answer your questions about sex, relationships, and life. It’s a place for honesty, desire, and the messy parts of being human.

I’ve written for Out Magazine, The Advocate, Document, VICE, Them, and more. My first book, My Love Is a Beast: Confessions, is a memoir about my life in sex work, kink, and gay culture.

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